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  • Managing Work Stress With Mindfulness
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 12, 2026 at 7:32 pm

    Introduction Work stress is something most people experience at some point in their careers. Deadlines, meetings, emails, and competing responsibilities can quickly create a sense of overwhelm. One helpful way to cope with this pressure is through mindfulness. Mindfulness is the practice of bringing your attention to the present moment without judgment and focusing on The post Managing Work Stress With Mindfulness appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • Food and Stress: How What You Eat Affects How You Feel
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 11, 2026 at 7:12 pm

    At Downtown Behavioral Wellness, we often remind our clients that emotional health and physical health are deeply connected. One area where this connection is especially clear is the link between food and stress. What we eat doesn’t just impact our body, but can also influence our mood, energy levels, and ability to cope with everyday The post Food and Stress: How What You Eat Affects How You Feel appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • Sleep and Mental Health: Improving Sleep for Emotional Balance
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 6, 2026 at 7:01 pm

    Sleep and emotional well-being are closely connected. When sleep is disrupted, emotions often feel more intense, stress feels harder to manage, and everyday challenges can feel overwhelming. Many people notice that poor sleep affects their patience, concentration, and ability to regulate mood — yet sleep is often one of the first areas to suffer during The post Sleep and Mental Health: Improving Sleep for Emotional Balance appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • Self Compassion: What it is & How to Practice it
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 3, 2026 at 3:40 pm

    Many people are far kinder to others than they are to themselves. When mistakes happen or emotions feel overwhelming, self-criticism often replaces understanding. Self-compassion offers an alternative — one that supports emotional resilience, reduces distress, and fosters healthier coping over time. Self-compassion is not about avoiding responsibility or lowering standards. It is about responding to The post Self Compassion: What it is & How to Practice it appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • How to Use Wise Mind in Everyday Stress
    by Madelaine Ellberger on February 27, 2026 at 3:28 pm

    Stress often pulls us toward extremes — reacting purely from emotion or shutting emotions down entirely in favor of logic. In DBT, Wise Mind represents the balanced place where emotion and reason work together. Learning to access Wise Mind can help you respond to stress with greater clarity and intention. Understanding the Three States of The post How to Use Wise Mind in Everyday Stress appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

Meet Your Hosts

Madelaine Ellberger, PhD, LCSW and Jennifer Teplin, LCSW have nearly two decades of combined clinical experience and a decade-long friendship. They’ve traded the therapy couch for the mic to bring you …Are We Okay?, a weekly podcast with stories, experiences, clinical knowledge, and connection. Because it’s time to talk about talk therapy. 

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Maddy
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