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Here at "...are we okay?" we gather and share articles, guides, and stories with the same flair and finesse as your chicest friend who knows just where to find the city’s hidden spots. Whether you’re seeking wisdom on navigating personal challenges, looking to transform your mindset, or just in need of a little emotional tune-up, we’ve got something for you.

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  • Managing Expectations: Finding Joy in Imperfect Celebrations
    by Madelaine Ellberger on December 19, 2024 at 9:00 am

    The holidays can often be anticipated as perfect moments filled with joy, beauty, and harmony, marking special occasions with family and friends, especially when social media is constantly displaying seemingly perfect families. However, the urge for an ideal celebration can sometimes lead to disappointment and discontent. Embracing a mindset that values presence over perfection can The post Managing Expectations: Finding Joy in Imperfect Celebrations appeared first on downtownbehavioralwellness.com.

  • Holiday Blues: Recognizing Signs and Seeking Help
    by Madelaine Ellberger on December 17, 2024 at 9:00 am

    The holiday season, often portrayed as a time of joy, warmth, and togetherness, can also bring up difficult emotions like anxiety, sadness, and loneliness. The holiday blues can arise due to many different pressures, including family dynamics, financial strain, loneliness, and even the high expectations people set for themselves. Recognizing the signs of the holiday The post Holiday Blues: Recognizing Signs and Seeking Help appeared first on downtownbehavioralwellness.com.

  • The Connection Between Lifestyle Choices and Depression: What You Need to Know
    by Madelaine Ellberger on December 12, 2024 at 9:00 am

    Depression is a complex interplay of genetic, biological, and environmental factors that science is still working to fully comprehend. Though our understanding of this condition continues to evolve, we do know that lifestyle choices can significantly impact the severity and progression of depression. In this article, we will explore how various aspects of your lifestyle The post The Connection Between Lifestyle Choices and Depression: What You Need to Know appeared first on downtownbehavioralwellness.com.

  • How Dialectical Behavior Therapy Enhances Distress Tolerance: Broken Down by a DBT Therapist
    by Madelaine Ellberger on December 10, 2024 at 9:00 am

    Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is a skills-based treatment that focuses on teaching tools for individuals to manage intense emotions, enabling them to navigate life’s challenges more effectively. DBT is a type of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) that integrates traditional CBT techniques with mindfulness practices while emphasizing balance, acceptance, and change, making it particularly effective for The post How Dialectical Behavior Therapy Enhances Distress Tolerance: Broken Down by a DBT Therapist appeared first on downtownbehavioralwellness.com.

  • Supporting a Loved One with Depression: Practical Tips and Resources from an NYC Therapist
    by Madelaine Ellberger on December 5, 2024 at 9:00 am

    Knowing the Signs Depression is a complex mental health condition that can manifest differently in different people. Depression is more than a feeling sad or having a bad day—it’s a persistent and often overwhelming state that affects mood, behavior, physical health, and even cognition. Recognizing the signs of depression in a loved one can be The post Supporting a Loved One with Depression: Practical Tips and Resources from an NYC Therapist appeared first on downtownbehavioralwellness.com.

Meet Your Hosts

Madelaine Ellberger, PhD, LCSW and Jennifer Teplin, LCSW have nearly two decades of combined clinical experience and a decade-long friendship. They’ve traded the therapy couch for the mic to bring you …Are We Okay?, a weekly podcast with stories, experiences, clinical knowledge, and connection. Because it’s time to talk about talk therapy. 

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