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Here at "...are we okay?" we gather and share articles, guides, and stories with the same flair and finesse as your chicest friend who knows just where to find the city’s hidden spots. Whether you’re seeking wisdom on navigating personal challenges, looking to transform your mindset, or just in need of a little emotional tune-up, we’ve got something for you.

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  • A WEEK OF DBT SKILLS: A DAILY PRACTICE PLAN
    by Madelaine Ellberger on January 27, 2026 at 8:55 pm

    Life can feel overwhelming when emotions pile up faster than we can make sense of them. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers practical, research-based skills that help people navigate intense feelings, stressful situations, and relationship challenges with more balance. While DBT skills are often learned over time in therapy, practicing them in small, intentional ways can The post A WEEK OF DBT SKILLS: A DAILY PRACTICE PLAN appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • 4 ways to ground yourself during an anxiety attack
    by Madelaine Ellberger on January 20, 2026 at 1:37 am

    Anxiety attacks are very common, and many people experience them at one point in their lives. When you are in the middle of an anxiety attack, your heart races, your thoughts spiral, and everything around you can feel overwhelming. The good news is there are tools and practices using DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy), and evidence-based The post 4 ways to ground yourself during an anxiety attack appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • Setting Boundaries in Relationships That Last
    by Madelaine Ellberger on January 6, 2026 at 1:29 am

    Healthy relationships—whether romantic, family, or friendships—are built on mutual respect, communication, and trust. One of the most important yet often overlooked ingredients is setting clear and compassionate boundaries. Boundaries are not walls meant to push people away; rather, they’re guidelines that help protect your well-being, define your values, and create space for more authentic connection The post Setting Boundaries in Relationships That Last appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • Coping Strategies for New Year’s Resolutions and Their Pressures
    by Madelaine Ellberger on December 30, 2025 at 1:40 am

    As the New Year rolls around, the pressure to set ambitious resolutions and reinvent ourselves can feel overwhelming. Whether it’s striving for personal growth, health goals, or career achievements, the weight of these expectations can quickly turn what’s meant to be an exciting fresh start into a source of stress and self-doubt. It’s easy to The post Coping Strategies for New Year’s Resolutions and Their Pressures appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • Mindfulness Practices for Career Success
    by Madelaine Ellberger on December 16, 2025 at 1:28 am

    Mindfulness is a core tenant of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). Mindfulness is the act of bringing your mind to the present moment without judgement. Mindfulness is more than just a stress management tool, it’s a way of living and working that can greatly enhance your career success. By learning to stay present, regulate your emotions, The post Mindfulness Practices for Career Success appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

Meet Your Hosts

Madelaine Ellberger, PhD, LCSW and Jennifer Teplin, LCSW have nearly two decades of combined clinical experience and a decade-long friendship. They’ve traded the therapy couch for the mic to bring you …Are We Okay?, a weekly podcast with stories, experiences, clinical knowledge, and connection. Because it’s time to talk about talk therapy. 

xo,
Maddy
& Jen

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