it's a collection of gems meant to guide you through the ups and downs of modern living. Think of it as finding that rare vinyl in a cozy NYC loft; it's cool, it's enlightening, and it's unmistakably us.

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Here at "...are we okay?" we gather and share articles, guides, and stories with the same flair and finesse as your chicest friend who knows just where to find the city’s hidden spots. Whether you’re seeking wisdom on navigating personal challenges, looking to transform your mindset, or just in need of a little emotional tune-up, we’ve got something for you.

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  • Breathwork Tips for Instant Calm
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 31, 2026 at 8:05 pm

    Breathwork Tips for Instant Calm When stress hits, it often shows up first in the breath. It becomes shallow, quick, and tense—sometimes without us even noticing. The good news is that your breath is also one of the fastest, most accessible tools for calming your nervous system. With a few simple breathwork techniques, you can The post Breathwork Tips for Instant Calm appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • How to Build a Consistent Self-Care Habit
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 27, 2026 at 8:00 pm

    Introduction If you’ve ever promised yourself you’d prioritize self-care—only to fall back into burnout—you’re not alone. Many people struggle with consistency, not because they don’t care, but because life feels overwhelming. Between stress, emotional exhaustion, and daily responsibilities, self-care can feel unrealistic or even guilt-inducing. The reality is that self-care is essential for emotional balance The post How to Build a Consistent Self-Care Habit appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • Friendship Wellness in a Busy City: NYC Edition
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 25, 2026 at 7:58 pm

    Living in New York City means living fast. We have demanding careers, long commutes, and packed schedules. Friendships can easily fall to the bottom of the priority list. However, friendship, connection, and joy are key parts of city life. Strong friendships are among the most protective factors for mental and emotional health. They reduce stress, The post Friendship Wellness in a Busy City: NYC Edition appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • How to Stay Calm During NYC Rush Hour
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 19, 2026 at 3:38 pm

    Introduction Every day in New York City, millions of people step into a predictable storm: rush hour. Trains stall, traffic freezes, horns blare, sidewalks clog, and suddenly you’re late. Again. What makes rush hour so uniquely stressful isn’t just the noise or the crowding; it’s the feeling of powerlessness. We tense up over delays we The post How to Stay Calm During NYC Rush Hour appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

  • Interpersonal Effectiveness in DBT: How to Show Up Well in Relationships
    by Madelaine Ellberger on March 17, 2026 at 3:23 pm

    Introduction Relationships are one of the biggest sources of joy and also some of the biggest sources of emotional pain. They activate our deepest fears, needs, and hopes. That’s why Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) places so much emphasis on interpersonal effectiveness: the set of skills that help you navigate relationships in a way that honors The post Interpersonal Effectiveness in DBT: How to Show Up Well in Relationships appeared first on Downtown Behavioral Wellness.

Meet Your Hosts

Madelaine Ellberger, PhD, LCSW and Jennifer Teplin, LCSW have nearly two decades of combined clinical experience and a decade-long friendship. They’ve traded the therapy couch for the mic to bring you …Are We Okay?, a weekly podcast with stories, experiences, clinical knowledge, and connection. Because it’s time to talk about talk therapy. 

xo,
Maddy
& Jen

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